How Feed, Play, and Sleep Routine Affects Your Baby's Rest
The Feed / Play / Sleep cycle is an important part of establishing a good routine for your baby. Understanding how these three activities interact helps you recognise when your baby is ready for rest and ensures healthier baby sleep patterns.
Why Feed, Play, and Sleep Must Stay Separate
The three steps need to remain separate for your baby to develop healthy sleep associations:
| Activity | Where It Happens |
| Feeding | In your arms |
| Playing | Down on the floor |
| Sleeping | In a cot |
Establishing the Feed / Play / Sleep routine enables you to watch for and recognise tired signs. When you see tired signs and know that baby has already been fed, implement settling techniques straight away. Do not wait until your baby is hungry, tired, and grumpy, or allow them to fall asleep in your arms.
This does not mean love and cuddles are sacrificed. Incorporate these into playtime as much as you wish. You still feed in your arms - the only difference is that you do not let them fall asleep in your arms.
How to Recognise Your Baby's Tired Signs
Tired cries are different from hunger cries. Your baby may be playing happily one minute and then suddenly start showing classic tired signs:
- Yawning frequently
- Grizzling or fussing
- Rubbing their eyes
- Arching their back
Additional Tired Signs to Watch For
- Not wanting to feed
- Not happy when picked up
- Not happy when put down
- In older children, they can become irritable or nasty
Once you notice these signs, it is time to start the settling process for your baby's sleep.
